Grandpa needs care that grandma can't give but they don't want to make decisions. How do I deal with this?

2021.12.05 22:57 Vessecora Grandpa needs care that grandma can't give but they don't want to make decisions. How do I deal with this?

Had a phone call from the doctors today. They're of the opinion that my grandpa is going to need 24/7 care now that he's had a few falls and is on oxygen. The geriatrics department is concerned about letting him go home with my grandma since she wouldn't be able to lift him into the now needed wheelchair.
My grandpa has always been a stubborn man. Apparently he's refusing physiotherapy, saying he doesn't understand why he needs to do it.
I feel like I need to step up and start making decisions. My grandpa wanted to make me his EPOA just before all the falls and even had a neighbour JP sign it but I didn't sign it myself since it was done in a heated moment and a bit of a hack job.
But now I think I should really push for them to make someone, if not me, their medical power of attorney instead of being each other's. The doctors don't seem to think my grandpa is capable of advanced medical decisions.
I'm 25 and I just don't know where to start, or how pushy to be. Do I just tell them I'm organising it, and ask for their permission? My grandpa and grandma raised me so I've been defaulting to their place of authority these past years.
And I can tell that the doctors would prefer that my grandpa go into a nursing home but he's heard so many negative stories that that is the last thing he wants. He's 95 and wants to live to 100.
I just don't know how to balance his wishes and his needs... Any advice or general support would be appreciated. I'm probably going to be able to deal with it all eventually, just because I'm used to being in survival mode (unfortunately). But I have to admit that my mental health is poor. I can tell that my psyche is wanting to dissociate and avoid, but I know I can't. I have to feel all these emotions and make decisions now.
I wish I didn't feel responsible, but I'm the only family they have in the state. I guess I should reach out to their son who is practically on the opposite side of the country. At least making this post made me think of that.
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